“She doesn’t like penetration and I do. The thing is she focuses on the penetration part and ignores my clit. I don’t know how to tell her that I’m not getting off,” Ruth’s statement about her new, lesbian relationship.

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We think of play as the business of childhood, but adults need play time as well. Sex is a way adults get to play. Play is about loosening up, being creative, and being open to your partner’s creativity. Play involves revealing something new about yourself and what turns you on. And, most importantly, play is [...]

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Yes, men have a g-spot too!  The male g-spot is usually referred to as the prostate gland. The prostate gland, like the female g-spot, is highly sensitive to sexual stimulation and many men report having orgasms from prostate stimulation alone!

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So if I touch this spot, she will immediately burst into an uncontrollable orgasm unlike anything that she’s ever experienced before…right?  Where the heck is this button?  I need to find it!
If you’ve had these thoughts, forget them.  The short answer is that “the button” doesn’t exist - at least not in the way described [...]

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There’s a menagerie of sexual lubricants out there, so how do I choose the right one? It can be confusing, but if you let your intuition guide you, a little information can go a long way. Here are some pointers.

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Fellatio is a versatile and wonderful erotic art that you can use in any type of sex play with your male (or strap-on wearing partner).  You can give fellatio during foreplay, in between your favorite sex positions, or when switching erotic activities, mutual oral (69), or save it for last.  It can be a teasing [...]

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Whether you’re searching for a romance toys designed with couples in mind or you want to share your passion for sex toys with a partner, there are endless possibilities for adding romance toys to couple sex.
People have often thought of sex toys as playthings for singles, but they’ve really come into their own as couples’ [...]

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We all want to be loved.  In fact, sometimes our impatience for love is so powerful that it makes our perceptions foggy and we don’t see the warning lights flashing.  Paying attention to these warning signs could mean the difference between crashing or cruising.  Here are a few suggestions to help you better see those [...]

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